How To End It

For the One who wants to break free from pornography:

First of all i want you to realize how much God loves you, He really loves you irrespective of what you've done and actually, He's been waiting for that moment when you will genuinely want freedom because He's been longing to help you. The realization that you need help from Him is the first and greatest step towards your freedom.

Secondly, i want you to know that you can actually break free from it, don't let the devil make you believe it's impossible, you weren't born with it in the first place so reject the devil's deception. Your real self doesn't know a thing about porn.

Thirdly, if you are born again, then you've got all it takes to break free from it.

Lastly, i want you to be sincere  about your decision to forsake it, you really have to because if you don't, what am about to share with you will just be a bunch of irrelevant rules. However, you have to be serious about it regardless.

Here are a few things you can do:

1. Identify and get rid of the various avenues that make you come in contact with it. For example, you can begin by deleting nude pictures from your gadgets if you have them, or videos.

2. Then if you used to go online to watch them, you have to delete your browser too. This may appear rather radical but it is the way out. All of this takes determination and discipline.

3. Pray for God's inner strength to resist the urge (because it's an addiction)

4. Fill your heart with God's word.

5. Desist from friends who are immoral, they may lure you into it again, associate with people whose lives you can emulate.

6. Have a mentor (a pastor, perhaps) over you who you hold in high esteem and can be accountable to.

7. Whenever the urge comes, try to avoid being alone, it will be the best time to visit another child of God ( preferably a brother, if you are a guy too).

8. Trust Him! My genuine prayer for you is that at the end of the day, you will become a muse to others who have the same problem because you overcame.

Ehkator U. Elijah

Benin-City, Nigeria.

ekhatorelijahuhunoma@yahoo.com